Relationships can be difficult, and they always take a lot of work. However, the concern over a loved one can sometimes lead to jealous assumptions. Here's a few ways to tell if your significant other is straying from the fold.

1. Eye contact. The eyes are the window to the soul, and if that soul is thinking of finding joy elsewhere, you can usually tell by lack of eye contact. Does your spouse prefer to look at others rather than you? If so, there may be a problem developing.

2. Tardiness. While it's true that many people have to work later hours, and often on a moment's notice. But if this becomes an everyday occurrence, try calling the office to see if he/she is even there.

3. Mysterious phone calls. Nothing irks a stay-at-home mom more than hang-ups. While many of these may be telemarketing computers on the prowl, there may also be a jezebel on the other end of the line. Check to make sure that the person hasn't hung up AFTER your greeting. If so, it may be someone who was scared away by an unknown voice.

4. Smells. Check your significant others' clothes for strange odors or expensive perfumes.

5. Anger. Your spouse may come home from work and be short-tempered and easily aggravated. Is this from a bad day at work, or a bad date at work?

6. Talk. Ask your spouse about his/her day at work. Does he/she have a tendency to avoid talking about it, as if he/she is trying to avoid contradicting him/herself? Or does it seem like he/she is trying to make things up on the spot?

7. Withdrawl. Has your spouse stopped holding you close? Does he/she watch television or work around the house in silence, and far from you? Are your conversations one-sided and short?

8. Forgetfulness. It may be a stereotype for men to forget their wives' or girlfriends' birthdays, anniversaries, and the like. However, if this forgetfulness extends well beyond that, into day-to-day activities, this can be a sign of a cheater.

9. Hiding. Does your spouse conceal physical objects from you, as if he/she is afraid you might "discover" something that he/she doesn't want you to know?

10. Glove Compartment. It's always a good idea to check your spouse's glove compartment for anything "suspicious."

For those of you who may suspect something, and want to work through it, there is always family counciling, and it can be very helpful to save a relationship. Try one of the following:

Dr. Jodie Fishbine - Fenville Twp. - (248) 555-6792

Drs. Matthew and Angela Wright - Grand Oaks - (248) 555-9923